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Bestfrenns ----> Lovers???

There is this guy that i basically grew up with and it's your typical best frenn story...We tell each other everything!!! (and I mean EVERYTHING) hella gurls have been trynna get with him for as long as i can remember. We would give each other advice on each other's relationship. We juss hella coo and KNOW each other!!

It's been a month now since me and my boyfrIend of 3 1/2 yrs broke up... We still on good terms and still got mad love for one another. He basically wants me to wait on him til he gets his fam's stuff str8ned out so we can start fresh! Right off the bacc i agreed cuz i myself am tooo busy with just too much.

Being a leader of my youth i have many responsibilities i have to uphold. My best frenn being the lifesaver that he is has been coming around to help me with pretty much EVERYTHiNG. We lost touch for a while cuz we were both busy but now i see him like every single day for youth practice, and he's not even part of my church.

So here's the issue. He juss told me yesterday that his feelings for me have changed! He said that Im the only girl that really gets him and hears him out! (Well uh duh we're bf's!) The thing is that im beginning to feel the same exact way! He was telling me that ever since we got bacc on tracc with each other he's been a whole lot happier! Same goes for me.

My heart is still with my ex but at the same time im lovin the time i spend with my best frenn!! Im stucc and i dont know exactly what to do or say. I love my bestfrenn but my feelings for him are starting to change as well. I dont want to start anything with him and it doesnt go well and then i lose him all together.

1sa:
What am i to do???
What would you do?

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Permalink Reply by LADEEH_JAy on August 30, 2011 at 2:18am

lol yeah i love happy endings too!!!! but we not at the end just yet... we juss getting started!! :D

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Permalink Reply by FRED on September 2, 2011 at 10:36am

good reply ladee jouray just don't la'u all your baggage from da past in2 ya new relationship

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Permalink Reply by LADEEH_JAy on September 2, 2011 at 1:45pm

Thanks Fred n yeah no worries it's bacc to my ex. We startin fresh n on a good note!!! God has been there the whole time n still stands strong by my side!! Thanks guys!!

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Permalink Reply by AULELEI on September 2, 2011 at 1:59pm

What am i to do??? You're allowed to feel for your best friend... It aint a crime... Dont wait til you sort your life out kos he might change his mind again lol .. He can help you with whatever issues you got and you can do the same in return...
What would you do? :hmmm: :hmmm: I would probably punch him in the head for even feeling that way for me... then I'll uppercut myself if I felt the same way he did :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Permalink Reply by JJW on September 2, 2011 at 6:25pm

Ehh kalofa e, i si teine ua makua confuse lava.. ia uppercut each other, you must know the difference between a straight punch and an uppercut.. ok.

Meaning that punch that starts low, come from underneath..LMAOOOOO

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Permalink Reply by AULELEI on September 2, 2011 at 7:31pm

:bastard: :bastard: :bastard: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: o lea mea a ouke mauaga ai oe, o'u kago loa PUNCH faapega oe :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

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Permalink Reply by JJW on September 3, 2011 at 12:28am

A'e e ke sau sau ma au uppercut, a lea foi ua fa'amalamalama aku i le keige le 'ese'esega a'e fa'asaga mai fo'i ma au upperkaki fa'aka'ika'i..hahahaha..

Va'ai o le upperkaki mo'i lava le uppercut a a'u..hahahaha. choooohoooooooooo

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Permalink Reply by AULELEI on September 3, 2011 at 3:03pm

UPPERKAKI DEEZE!!! B-) B-) :rotfl:

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Permalink Reply by JJW on September 3, 2011 at 8:29pm

LMAOOOOOOOOO... chooooooohoooooooo

Se malo Upperkaki..LOL.

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Permalink Reply by Sumo on October 5, 2011 at 5:37pm

agree with u both....@ julius and unpretty

but yeah, while ur sitting on the fence, maybe its a good idea to slow it down....enjoy time by urself... :asino: